: I have no kids, and am single, I been in a relationship that was very hurtful and painful to me,This First relationship was very bad, and lasted for two years..., he cheated on me by going out with my friend and sleeping with her 1..what do u like in a lady ? What does it really mean to be affectionate? I love a man who can display his affections for me anytime and anywhere without having to be shy. And a person who knows how to be affectionate is a big plus. I love being affectionate. I need someone who is intelligent, good looking, has a great personality, is sociable, humble, affectionate, loyal, caring, giving (he will always get more in return) a little spontaneous, can cook somewhat...I cook too, a partner so to speak....